Financially Prepare for Marriage
The marriage of two persons combines lives and responsibilities, but also brings together dreams and, indeed, budgets. Indian weddings are often elaborate affairs involving huge expenses; planning life after the wedding day needs careful financial consideration. So much so that financial preparations ahead of marriage have become equally important as the emotional preparation.
Let’s take a closer look at marriage preparation through budgeting, setting joint financial goals, talking about money matters, cost-cutting, and long-term planning as a couple in India
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10 Points of Financially Preparing for Marriage
Discover 10 essential tips to financially prepare for marriage and build a strong foundation for your future together.
1. Talk About Money Openly
Your first real money talk as a couple shouldn’t be a few awkward moments! Financial compatibility leads to a peaceful and prosperous life together. Here are some things you should discuss before marriage:
- Income and career plans
- Saving schemes and investment options
- Any existing loans or debts
- Monthly expenses and lifestyle choices
- Financial goals (buying a house, travel, kids’ education)
Getting to know each other’s financial standing can help avoid bitterness later and promote trust.
2. Set Your Financial Goals Together
Once you are able to openly discuss money matters, set your short-term and long-term goals together.
Short-term goals may cover:
- Your wedding bills
- Honeymoon expenses
- Setting up your first home
Long-term goals may include:
- Purchasing a house/car
- Starting a family
- Retirement planning
Aligning your goals will allow for smoother planning and lower the risk of stress after the wedding.
3. Create a Realistic Wedding Budget
HUGE and BEAUTIFUL are the things Indian marriages are known for, but one thing is for sure: they do not come cheap. With the sudden skyrocketing prices of venues, caterers, jewellers, and decorators, one can easily become overwhelmed.
Before weddings, once planning starts, determine:
- How much are the two families contributing to the wedding?
- What may be the utmost amount they could spend?
- What would be some items on which they absolutely must spend, and what are some items on which the budget can be compromised?
Ways to control wedding expenses will be:
- Keep a smaller guest list.
- Choose off-dates.
- Rent designer wear rather than purchase.
- Use digital invites.
- Select one venue for the entire function.
Remember: You can have your pretty wedding without going broke.
4. Build an Emergency Fund
An emergency fund should be set up between partners before they begin married life. Life is unpredictable; medical emergencies, job losses, or sudden travel needs can come at any time. The fund should have at least 3-6 months of essential living expenses set aside in a separate, easily accessible account.
5. Consider Opening Joint Accounts (But with Boundaries)
Many couples usually keep joint bank accounts for household expenses or savings. It is not compulsory, but it can be very useful in keeping track of their shared expenses while promoting openness.
Some approaches include:
- Maintain your account, but pay into the joint account every month.
- Use the joint account only for specific shared goals (such as an apartment, holiday, or car).
- Have a notion wallet for bills, but segregate your investing.
Whatever you end up doing, set rules in place to maintain that respect.
6. Plan Your Post-Wedding Expenses
Marriage-world expenses don’t end with a wedding ceremony! That’s when real money planning begins.
Expenses to plan:
- Monthly rent or EMI
- Furniture and household essentials
- Utilities and subscriptions
- Regular groceries and travel
- Health insurance
Discuss how these expenses will be borne or shared among the parties. Make a simple household budget covering needs, savings, and lifestyle.
7. Understand Each Other’s Spending Habits
Somewhere before marriage, it is beneficial to learn about each other’s attitude toward money: Is one a saver and the other a spender? Or does one prefer to plan while the other one lives in the moment?
Neither is good nor bad, but knowing each other’s differences early in life greatly helps with money management. This might require one to spend less, or compromise in wanting to go out monthly, shop a little, or buy presents.
8. Plan Insurance and Legal Documentation
Marriage is the time to update any insurance and nomination policies.
Things to do:
- Add spouse(s) as nominee(s) to your insurance policies.
- Buy or update health insurance policies for both of you.
- Get your term insurance if you intend to start a family.
- Draw up a simple Will or estate plan if you already own assets.
These steps ensure the protection of each other in times of emergencies and give a sign of financial maturity on both sides.
9. Discuss Investments and Financial Responsibilities
If both partners earn, decide who will manage what:
- Who pays the monthly bills?
- Who invests in which instruments- SIPs, stocks, PPF?
- Will you both contribute equally to long-term savings?
If only one partner earns, the two should talk about how financial decisions will be made together.
Always keep both partners informed, regardless of who handles the transactions. Transparency needs to be maintained between the partners at any stage of the dealings.
Jointly, they can also invest in mutual funds, real estate, or gold, depending on their risk profile and considerations for the future.
10. Avoid or Clear Debt Early
Entering marriage with huge debts puts financial pressure on to be. Personal loans, credit card dues, or EMIs should be tried to be paid off before marriage.
If there is student loan debt or any other debt existing on either spouse, then be honest and upfront about it and make a plan together to pay for it so it does not become a source of friction.
11. Start Saving for Bigger Goals
Much money is required for marriage as the commencement of several life chapters—kids, a new house, or trips, maybe even a business! The earlier you start to save and invest, the easier it becomes.
- Some preferred options for couples in India are:
- Systematic Investment Plans (SIPs)
- Public Provident Fund (PPF)
- Recurring Deposits
- National Pension Scheme (NPS)
- Tax-saving mutual funds (ELSS)
Opt for any based on one’s risk profile, plans, and investment horizon.
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How much does one need to save for the wedding?
It depends upon your lifestyle and the list of guests you have, so make a wedding budget realistic to your savings and do not go deep into borrowing.
What do you do to accommodate conflicting spending habits?
Open discussion about it; agree upon a monthly budget; allow each partner some leeway. Trust and respect should be the glue working toward compromise.
What is the most important financial step one has to take before getting married?
Have an open discussion about income, debts, goals, and spending habits. Financial transparency leads to long-term trust.
In case only one of them earns, in such a situation, would financial planning even matter?
Yes, both partners should be involved in the decision-making and the setting of goals, so as to achieve financial equality and shared responsibility.
Conclusion
Marriage in India is more of a romantic affair, and traditional financial planning is equally important, though. If you want a secure and stress-free married life, then aligning your money mindset, budgeting smartly, and mapping your financial journey should be a must.
Remember: It would never matter who earns more; it would always matter how well you both can manage money!
Assistant Vice President – Research & Analysis
Akash Gupta heads the Research & Analysis department at BFC CAPITAL, where he combines in-depth market insights with strategic analysis. He holds multiple certifications, including:
- NISM-Series-XIII: Common Derivatives Certification
- NISM-Series-VIII: Equity Derivatives Certification
- NISM-Series-XXI-A: Portfolio Management Services Certification
- IRDAI Certification
With his expertise in equity, derivatives, and portfolio management, Akash plays a key role in providing research-backed strategies and actionable insights to help clients navigate the investment landscape.
